Sometimes, there comes a day in life when everything around me continues as usual, but something inside me becomes completely still. A day when my ...
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What Have I Gained in Life?
For me, it's:
This moment!
I want to live it fully!
It's a great thing that you're thinking in terms of contributing to the world!
To be honest, I never really thought about doing something for the world (maybe I'm a little selfish). π
One part of it, for me, is to try to enjoy each journey and the little gifts they bring. It's tough though especially when a person is so goal oriented. Mindfulness can help but that's easier said than done.
What would you suggest for someone like me who's very goal-oriented? How can I practice mindfulness?
Mindfulness can mean a lot of things, so pick the version that fits how you're wired. What works for me: instead of trying to empty my head, I look at what I learned along the way. How far I've come. Where I started.
The other piece is that reaching the goal is part of the journey too, not the end of it. Each one is a building block for the next thing. I still catch myself blowing past the good parts, so I'm practicing this one right along with you.
You being here is already the best thing you've given this world. And hey β you just hit your breakthrough moment. Think of it like a game: this is that exact second before the level-up screen pops. Get through today, and boom β you're level-up +1. πͺ
Thank you so much wise old sage!ππ»β€οΈ
Old? Please. I'm vintage. π€£
Okay, Mr. Vintage! π You're not old, you've just got an old soul.ππ»
I think one of the traps in questions like this is assuming that what we gain must always be something we can point to. A title, a salary, a project, recognition. But many of the most important gains are invisible while theyβre happening. The ability to think more clearly, to make better decisions, to stay kind after disappointment, or to keep going after failure rarely feels like an achievement in the moment.
You also asked, βWhat have I truly added to this world?β I donβt think the answer has to be something permanent or world-changing. Sometimes itβs enough that someone understood a difficult idea because of you, felt less alone because of your words, or found the courage to continue after reading something you wrote. We rarely get to see the full impact of our own lives.
Maybe the question isnβt only βWhat have I gained?β but also βWho am I becoming?β Those two answers arenβt always the same, and I suspect the second one matters much more in the long run.
Hi Divyanshi, I hope you are doing wellπ.
Thank you for sharing such a thoughtful articleβ¨.
I think the fact that you can reflect on these things so honestly is already a sign of growthβ€οΈβπ₯. I hope you can keep moving forward, little by little, toward the things you truly want to doπ.
"The world I live in carries the efforts and dreams of countless people who came before me" - our modern world with its advances in tech, living standards, health and medicine, etc etc - it's a place which our ancestors wouldn't be in awe of if they'd see it!
What are our individual contributions to make all of that happen? Necessarily they're small, very small - it's a collective effort of billions of people, who are standing on the shoulders of giants (genius scientists and engineers whose discoveries and inventions laid the foundations) ...
But our "small" individual contributions still matter, because they get multiplied by approximately 8 billion!
Even geniuses like Newton or Einstein would have been nowhere without the contributions of others ...
It's an amazing world we live in, so let's cherish it, and try to improve it (even if only a tiny bit) if we can!
Divyanshi, I think a lot of people have days like this, even if they don't always talk about them.
I liked your point that maybe what we've gained isn't always something we can measure, but the person we've become through all the struggles and lessons along the way. Wishing you many more moments of growth on your journey π
Gainedβ¦? π€ If I can relate to that thought, I find peace in knowing Iβve put a smile in someoneβs heart. It doesn't have to be a material giftβit could simply be helping someone debug a problem, analyze an idea, or in some small way alleviate a headache they were carrying. π It makes me want to do even more, even if I never know the person who received it or the impact it had on the world at large.
Your comment brought a smile to my face. π₯° The kindness in your words says a lot about the person you are. In a world where kindness can sometimes feel rare, meeting a soul like yours feels special. Thank you for spreading such positivity. β€οΈ